Let’s Talk About Tall Girls and Short Guys Dating…

Geeewwdd morning! Or afternoon! Or evening! Or Night! I don’t even know at this point. You guys need to let me know what time it is for you guys right now. Let me know @atallgirlspodcast on Instagram, Pinterest, and TikTok. It’s currently 3:57 pm where I’m at. 

Honestly, I really didn’t think I was going to be talking about this topic as soon as I currently am. I was going to get into this during “cuffing season” haha because it’s currently summer at the time I’m typing this. But I received a couple comments under my YouTube channel (yes I have a YouTube channel for my podcast. Please go subscribe. I’ll have it linked somewhere, but you can also search it under “A Tall Girl’s Podcast”). 

I’m assuming that it is from a guy who is short (well he is, he said he was 5 feet and 5 inches). His questions were somewhere along the lines of “Why do tall girls not feel interested in shorter guys? Why do tall girls just ignore them?” This is pretty intense considering the fact that I only had 2 videos posted on my channel at the time and only 2 subscribers. But hey I guess my content is just that amazing! 

These were some hard-hitting questions though and maybe this guy is frustrated from his experience(s) with taller women. So, I just wanted to come on here and give my little “two cents” on the matter because I want to help the other folks who may also be wondering the same thing as this guy, but are afraid to voice it. I also want to give my opinion on the whole matter.

Now, there are many reasons that a tall girl may not want to go out with a shorter guy, so I can’t really pinpoint one exact reason. Every girl, in fact, EVERYBODY, is different. But speaking from my own and some of my tall friends’ experiences, I can feel really awkward to go out with a shorter guy. Now I feel like this depends on the height difference. Like 1, 2, or even 3 inches is whatever. But a whole foot? Like 12 inches? I don’t know man. 

In general, we are constantly surrounded by people who are shorter than us. And it can get uncomfortable sometimes. We just feel so out of place and it just makes us feel so much taller than we actually are. I feel like being around someone who is closer to us in height would make us feel a little more comfortable about ourselves. 

I’m going to leave the rest of the reasons for my podcast episode. It’s at the top of the page so give it a little for a more in-depth explanation and my own opinion on this matter. By no means do I want any of these reasons to sound like excuses, but I just wanted to note some patterns I’ve seen over the years. 

Listen To The Full Episode Here!

Anyways, I hope this helps anyone who has any questions or concerns on this matter and I just wanted to say that this is a height positive space and that no matter how tall or how short you are, you deserve to be loved :) See you in the next one! 

Goodnight and goodbyyyyyeee,

India