Ep. 195: Are Tall Women ACTUALLY Insecure Or Are We Just ‘Playing the Victim’? | Why No One Takes Us Seriously

Gewddd morning everybody! Welcome or welcome back to another episode of A Tall Girl’s Podcast; so glad you’re here :) Before I get into this episode I do wanna say, make sure you’re following me on my socials @atallgirlspodcast on Instagram, TikTok, and Pinterest so that you can stay up to date on all of the latest podcast episodes and catch a glimpse of my everyday life. Also, feel free to leave me a review below and let me know how tall you are! 

Happy February y’all! FINALLY!!!!! 

Lol I mean January was kinda like 5 weeks long like but January 2025 felt like such a LOOONNGGG MONTH. I’m telling you – I think I lived a year and a half in that month ://// I actually saw this TikTok of this lady saying it’s been January since 2 or 3 January’s ago and I’m like YUP…THAT’S THE ONE. 

I just think that because so much happened for the entire month, we feel like we’ve lived through a lifetime. I quite literally thought last month was never gonna end. But here we are. We made it. PERIODT. 

Anyways, this episode is actually inspired by a few comments I’ve gotten on my socials over the past few weeks. If you don’t follow me on my socials (like how dare you lol jk jk), I typically post podcast clips and commentary style vids so essentially much of my content is more commentary style in regard to tall women in society and so forth. Meaning that I often talk about the struggles we face. 

And there are two particular comments that stood out to me. One was under a TikTok video of me basically discussing how tall women aren’t viewed as feminine and we try to overcompensate by hyper-feminizing ourselves and essentially acting in a way that just isn’t natural to us. This person specifically commented that petite women are more feminine end of story and that I can’t reason my way out of this AND I shouldn’t try to convince men who don’t like tall women to like them. And I’m like this video isn’t even directed towards men nor did I even mention anything about a man lol. Chill out bruv. 

In another post (I was discussing how we hyper-feminize ourselves because people call us/see us as masculine), someone commented with a picture of a fake credit card with “victim card” on top of it. And I’m like Oh?? Haha ok???? I’m noticing a pattern here: people tend to dismiss our struggles, experiences, and insecurities.

Anyways, so this does raise the question: are tall women’s insecurities real? Why do people often dismiss them? I dive deeper into the answers in my podcast episode! 

Thank you so much for tuning in to this episode; I really appreciate it, and I appreciate you. As always, feel free to hit me up on my socials and let me know what you thought about this episode! Do you think that tall women’s insecurities are often dismissed? Do you even think they’re real? Let me know, and until then, I’ll catch you in the next one! 

Goodnight and goodbyyyyyeee,

India