Your Lack of Self-Compassion Is Ruining Your Confidence
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Y’all we completed our first week of college!! Well, ‘we’?? I don’t necessarily know whether or not you’re in school, but if you are, we’re in the same boat currently lol. But I would say that this first week was pretty good. Like I’m meeting new people already which is awesome. And if you didn't know, last year at this time I was literally crying my eyes out because I was struggling with that.
But it seems to no longer be a struggle, which is awesome. I also like the class that I’m currently taking. That also makes sense because now I’m taking classes for my major (Entrepreneurship) and I’m meeting more like-minded people so that’s also cool. The only thing that I can complain about is the transit system. The trains are so delayed here because of track work, but ya know what that’s what happens when you live in a big city :///
And even though this first week went really well, I still somehow found a way to talk negatively to and about myself. I’d beat myself up for not making friends fast enough or I wasn’t transitioning into the new year seamlessly enough or I didn’t complete my work fast enough. And it’s like why??? It’s literally the first week. It’s SUPPOSED to be chaotic. The first month is actually SUPPOSED TO BE CHAOTIC.
Why am I beating myself up because of something that is completely new to me? And then at one point, I began to realize that I used to do this to myself relating to my height. Why? And how did that play a role in my low confidence? Tune in to the full episode below for more!
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Goodnight and goodbyyyyyeee,